When I first started looking for NSA sex online my first thought and indeed first search would be I want “casual sex near me” but is this really the best thing? Should we be meeting people for casual sex in our local area or are we best look further a field?
Being a very promiscuous lady I’ve always sought sex outside of marriage – within a year of getting married I was already “cheating” on my first husband. I didn’t see it as cheating though, I saw it as I was just having fun but back then I was meeting local guys who lived in the same town and it’s a miracle I never got caught especially when I bumped in to one guy in the local super market and I just happened to be with my husband. luckily for me though he was understanding and just gave me a a smile and a nod as if we were total strangers but it got me thinking that maybe I should be looking further away for my next casual encounter.
There are other reasons to for not searching for “casual sex near me” if you have family and kids you could always be spotted sneaking in to another mans house, or maybe entering a hotel with a strange man or woman and you risk hurting peoples feelings. I suggest when looking for your casual encounter and if you want to keep your encounters secret then perhaps look to a nearby town. if your husband knows what your’e up to then fair enough it doesn’t really matter as is the case with my second husband, we both meet up with lovers for “fun” and enjoy our separate lives but at the same time we don’t want our friends and family to know the secret lives we lead. Also though, you don’t want to be traveling half way across the country for what essentially could be a 5 minute quickie in the back of a car!